Just A Guy Thing posted an interesting article on flirting that seems to be all the rage today. The article is pretty much “Flirting for Dummies,” going over the differences between how men and women flirt, the keys to flirting successfully and how technology has impacted flirting (text messaging, holler!).

The Dutch have a way with words:

Dutch-born psychoanalyst Manfred Kets de Vries blames the male super-ego. “A man behaving selfishly will ignore the implicit conduct of flirting in the blatant pursuit of sex.” He’s basically saying that if we were in a cave, the man would fling the woman over his shoulder and stomp away.

Up until now, my tool for flirting was R. Kelly’s “I’m A Flirt“, from Kells himself:

When U Bring Em Round Me / Let Me Remind U That I Am The King Of R&B / Do U Know What That Means / That Means If U Love Yo Chick / Don’t Bring Her To The VIP / Cuz I Might Leave Wit Yo Chick

Mandatory reading before this weekend: Original Story from Just A Guy Thing.